I was unfaithful

[SirPrizeMe]

Hey Maxy, yes, I've been quiet. Not because I got more family time tho. Just quiet is all.

When I said "she was fixing me up in her head" - I mean she actually suggested to me that I should go and date her friend. I mean explicitly she told me this. While we were still living in the house together. How weird.

DQ,

can't just go back and pretend it never happened and expect the marriage to survive.

That sure sounds right to me.

In my case, my W's suggestion and approach was more, "let's just forget this whole thing." Clearly not workable.

But now...I am learning how to make amends with my old self, so that I don't ever make the same mistakes. I think I had to pay the final price in order to grow though....does that make sense?

Yes, that makes a ton of sense.