Well, I had another DBcoaching session today. I thought Jody, would be disappointed that I didn't follow her advise. On the contrary she felt that it was a nice step forward to break the stale mate. Thanks Coach & Jen for all you encouragement & advise. Both of you were right on target! She also said I did a good job in some of the comments I made to my H. (Like saying that when we dated he was in control. So he did have that control in our R at on time). Strange that she admitted, that I have been a tough case. Basically, what I need to do is build on the friendship, be a bit flirty, have happy & positive energy when I'm around him, ask him for help with things. Also I'm supposed to let him make the next move.
Still the D question & what he will decide hangs over my head. Yet, I don't think that frightens me as much as it used to.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
She also said I did a good job in some of the comments I made to my H. (Like saying that when we dated he was in control. So he did have that control in our R at on time). Strange that she admitted, that I have been a tough case. Basically, what I need to do is build on the friendship, be a bit flirty, have happy & positive energy when I'm around him, ask him for help with things. Also I'm supposed to let him make the next move.
