Hi T2L -

Great post ... so true.. since my wounds are raw I am definitely spending all my time thinking about H, what is he doing, the OW and not enough about me and my girls.. Sounds like I need to set small goals as well...

I'm going to make a list for the weekend and just enjoy it as much as I can..

thanks for passing along the inspiring words.... thanks for all the help you have already given me ... all of you actually.

I updated my posted tonight so hopeful insight would be great.

You all sound so strong and wise and I hope to be there soon.. mine is just so raw and new I'm mixed with emotion everyday... When will the bleeding stop??? :-)

Hang in there


Me: 38/H:40
M:7yrs
TG: 10yrs
2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old
Bomb 8/22/08
OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old
Moved out 9/22/08

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