Wow, I've got mail! So to respond:

Hi Cliffy! Glad things are mostly in a positive direction in your life...love to hear an update...are you coaching again this year?

AG,
Yes, this was a warm-up race. The big fall race is Nov 9th in Miami...should be a blast!

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Have you and/or W talked to the kids yet about the D?

Not yet, this will come soon enough. I need to take some time and review some of the books I bought on this subject. Still not sure exactly what I want to say. "Mom is off her rocker and I gotta get away from her to save my sanity." doesn't really sound quite right does it?

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Do you think she is DB'ing you?

I think there are several possibilities:
1. She is trying to keep things calm while she prepares herself for the big D.
2. She is trying really hard to look good so that I will feel like the bad guy and either not D her or so that she will somehow look better in the D case?!
3. She is trying to convince me not to file?
In any case, I don't care anymore...I just want off the merry-go-round!

Glad you got your membership one way or another.

Hi Sunny!
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I don't know if I understand what you mean by hoping it's more than an act. You mean as far as her R w/the kids, or your post D interactions being friendly, or maybe that it goes smoothly after the papers arrive?


What I meant was I hope that she will stay civil through the D and also afterwards...for the kids sake.

As far as working out goes, the endorphins are great for PMA. It also feels good to be getting close to competitive form again. I had forgotten how good it feels to be in great shape.

Take care, SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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