Well, After the finger incident....I distanced myself from H. I couldn't handle the drama. I saw him for only a few minutes last weekend and that was that. D13 told me he and MOW made up (I didn't ask....she just told me she was annoyed with h when they were shopping because he spent all of his time tming mow).
Anyway, all was quiet until last night. H was supposed to take d13 to the dentist today and he called to tell me he couldn't take her because he was not feeling up to it.
I asked if he was ok and he told me he wasn't. That it didn't matter. He was full. He couldn't take any more. He then told me that in a few days I would hate him anyway for what he had done. I asked what he meant by that and he said you will find out.
So, I hung up with h and he then proceeded to tm me. The whole blame thing again (i thought that the anger had passed....). He went on about how all the same MLC lines...I didn't listen to him, I loved him on my terms, he had no say in anything,etc.
My only response to him was that I was sorry he was in pain and that I was not perfect and that I was sorry he was still so hurt. I left it at that.
H was not here for d13 when she came home from school today. She told me he called her apologizing and crying.
So, not sure why I will be hating H. Is he completeing the d? Is he selling the house again? Is it something worse.
UGH...
Trying not to think about it but the fact that he tried so hard to be mad at me and make me angry last night leaves me wondering.