OK, more drama in Jillville. X called this AM to threaten that he was amending his tax returns for 3 yrs to prove that "he" paid for D's college, yet I claimed her and got credit for tuition......... Crimany, yes, he wrote the stinkin' checks or put it on his cc, but he took 1/2 out of the money he was to be paying me.
Interesting, since we both have the same accountant and doing it the way I did was what he advised and X agreed at the time.
Soooooooo, nearly 5 yrs post D and I still have to deal with his lieing and cheating. DUMBA$$!!!! I've already talked to my accountant and he stated that X won't do it cuz he certainly doesn't want the IRS looking into his taxes. But, my acct says I have nothing to worry about even if he does. So, there ya go.
My advice to anyone out there.....if you really want them out of your life, don't have children with them!!!! I've soooooooo thought about telling him that she's not even his. But........she's the spittin image of him.
Another funny thing. While he was threatening me over the phone today a cop came into the coffee shop and handed him something (prolly a summons) from a bill collector. Oh, how the mighty have fallen.
Ya know, I really was going to just let this entire thing sit for awhile before I did anything more to collect my money but now he's pushing my buttons and I'm not feeling so nice......
Another tidbit of advice........if there's any way to do it...keep your retirement. I did and it's a pretty good one. He blew his!!!!
X wants to negotiate. How the hell do you negotiate when you are "supposedly" broke. He wants me to give him a figure between $0 and 35K. Hmmmmmmmmm....Of course, he wants it in writing. It's all about what he wants, ya know.
Sooooo, I want him out of my life and I will think about negotiating. First, I need to talk with my A.
I've soooooooo thought about telling him that she's not even his. But........she's the spittin image of him. 