A, You are doing better than you think. You are gradually detaching from the drama and that's okay. You need to have your emotional coaster settle down a bit. Your h is still very mixed up and that's why he's the way he is. If he's giving you money, accept it graciously and always thank him for it.
A....time really is on your side. You must remember that you are the healthy one here, living in your nice place and have your family around you. Your h is living in a forest of unknown right now and that's not a good place to be.
Keep up the good work! Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
