The good signs are as follows:

H is getting c. (Do you realize how huge this is for a man)
Possibly moving in with parents
Not saying he wants a D (Confused - you can help him with this)
Still wanting to talk to you even if it's limited
Spends time with D
Telling you about his C session
Including you on some of his life

None of this can you take for granted. If he was truly checked out you wouldn't hear from him he would not want nothing to do with you, he is still engaged somewhat in the R. Now it's up to you to make those the best interactions, so he forgets why he left in the first place.

Get it?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"