Hi Sabrina, the reason he accuses you of cheating is because it is what HE is doing. H wants you to be available and he wants the OW. You do not need to justify yourself to improve on yourself. You are stepping out of the mold of what he expects and he does not like it. GAL, working and not giving all the attention back to him is starting to make him re-evaluate his self.
Keep it up.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09