New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[hope3343]

Hi T2L, first how did you box part of the Jgrind's post? I see other people doing that.
T2L your right about questioning yourself about your H. I was sitting in a meeting with H today and I was looking over at him and saying right now I don't even like him. He is a cheater, liar, unethical having an A with his direct report, and will break his daughter's hearts. I could see his secret phone in his pant's pocket. Then I look at myself and think sometimes I am a loser wanting to stay with him. But I think you have your goals of 6 months and at that point reflect on what you would like to do.
Then I look at some of the other posts of reconciled marriages and they went through hell but have been restored and I ache for that. T2L, this experience for you is building character, builing your strength and eventually will rebuild your self esteem. Reading our posts most of us were also unhappy with our current marriages. We just stayed. We do have choices but it is too early to see where they lead. T2L, when I originally read your first posts I had to respond even though my H had not moved in with his OW because your thread was not a bashing site like some others. (Not that we don't vent and have bad days.) I liked your outlook and how you were with your children. You are a survivor. Either way if we have to move on if our Hs don't come back we need to continue to work on ourselves and get healthy mentally, spiritually, and physically. We owe that to ourselves and children.
These H's are so much alike. My H also lives for getting a tan! I lol when I read that.

Looked up that movie...I think that would be an excellent selection for a father/daughter night at the movies? I will see if it plays out here. thanks so much.