Is my wife walking away?

[Vorlon]

Hi,

I am not a DB pro and new here but to me this is classic wanting to have your cake and eat it too! She simply wants your permission..that way she can do it with as little guilt as possible.

I would find it very hard to beleive that she is just going to date. Maybe that's what she thinks right now but if she has convinced herself this is a workable solution then she'll convince herself it perfectly OK to do whatever she wants in the end and by then she has your permission. So it will be Ok and too late.

Yes she is tired of the responsibility and real life work that is a marriage. Maybe you both married too young? Maybe she is simply selfish. There are any number of reasons for it. It will be up to you! But if you go along with it be ready for everything that it entails. For example: when she does sleep with other men...how will that make you feel? Will you accept being a cuckold, laughed at and riddiculed ...just to stay married to her? How can you respect yourself after that and how could she really respect you if you allow it. How will her behavior then impact your child and what would that say to your child about you (Father) if you let her do that to you. No womam on earth is worth your self respect!

To me she is leading you down a dark alley that will not end well for you! My advice is that if she wants out of the marrige then fine..prepare to divorce her and let her go. Get a life of your own on your own terms and not those dictated to you by this selfish !@#%$.

Find yourself a women you can trust and love and that will return that love equally. When your W see this is not a game it may change her mind but you have to really mean it and not be bluffing. Get a life, grow into who you really are and not what she has let you be and live life to the fullest. Never be mean or spiteful just have enough self respect to not let her do this to you. She is thinking of no one but herself in everything she is telling you.

Others may disagree but I think she is just setting you up....why would you want her back after she has been with mnay others and laughing at you behind your back the whole time. Think about it. It's your decision. What will make you happy now and in the long run.

Vorlon