Close encounters of the MLC kind

[hoosiermama]

So--does an exit affair change the prognosis? All the other signs and symptoms of MLC are there--script, need to change everything, personality change. He's even involved with a girlfriend from 20 years ago and looking at apartments where he lived 20 years ago.

You know, it's really difficult to figure out what I should be learning from this, how not to make the same mistakes again, etc. because the "feedback" I've gotten about what led to the demise of the marriage is a far cry from what I've experienced.