Oh Sandy...thanks so much for dropping by! And thanks especially for the mini 2X4 because it made me think about the time frame of things. I see now that I can't put timelines on such a thing even if he never knows the control I tried to put on it. It's true that it may take months of consistant change to really make a difference.

In your sitch you put the dates and believe it or not my H had a EA around the same time and moved out around the same time too \:\(


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road