Parenting Evaluation has come in...

...and I'm crushed. The recommendation is for me to get D every other weekend and one overnight a week. I'm in disbelief over this as now I have 8 days a month to have an impact on my D's life.

I'm destroyed, but also angry. My W's case is completely built on lies and half truths, but the evaluator bought it completely. I'm being punished b/c I admitted my faults and have taken steps to correct them.

W's "fear" of me is the main reason for the decision. He also stated that he didn't think we could work well w/ each other which is why he can't rule for 50/50. I'm not the one who is difficult to work with in this case. W is being rewarded for being difficult and angry w/ me. What do I get for taking the high road? Nothing.

I'm stunned and angry at W. It isn't fair, but I'm a man so I must lose in this system of ours.

RTL


M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08