Bottom line, if he is just thinking of her or feeling bad b/c she is contacting again, I can live with that. If he is engaging in communication with her via e-mail, phone calls, or texting, I cannot live with that. Only thing is I have no way of knowing.
BobbiJo - I remember before my bomb discovering a printout of some John Lennon song about not loving someone anymore that my W printed out. I paid it no attention at the time, but in retrospect it was maybe my first sign.
All you must do is as you say - go about life as usual and just think it is part of his process with dealing with the loss of OW. If he is going to reengage with her, you would eventually find out as cheaters always mess up. But dont worry about that until you do find out. Give him the benefit of the doubt for now that it is going to take him time.
