Wow ITH!! Very intense IM session. You did do good at most point where you validated but you tried to make him realize that you had changed a little too much. Those things he is going to have to see on his own once you get back to Dublin.
The only thing that really kills me is how he kept calling you selfish yet it is ok for your loans to be late and you have to help him pay for his rented room...Call me crazy but does anyone else see that as wrong also??
If you don't mind me asking but from the convo there was alot of talk about his anger towards you and him trusting you...did you cheat on him? You can tell me to mind my business, that would be fine..just wondering.