absolutely. end the first before beginning the next.
my STBX started the next while working out the logistics to get out of the first while trying to save face. claims to have tried to 'get back the old feelings' blah blah blah. no MC, no commitment to even trying to try, nothing. always spending more emotional time with OM. the ol' Mote-in-your-own-eye analogy was everywhere while i was DBing. I'd address one after another of her list of issues, and when the list got short, i'd be given a new list.
i'm now the cause of the failure of my M because i cant fart the Miami Vice theme song and who knows what else, just a list of some ridiculous, impossible-to-achieve issues.
well, so be it. thanks RMG, your words are very healing. and Fig, your input is appreciated. its nice to be validated for what i'm feeling, thank you all for that.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
