I just hate to do the legal separation as it puts us one step closer to D. To be honest as H is not living in reality, I can always put some of my stock money aside without him knowing. He seriously has no clue. I don't want to be manipulative though...I also want to make sure that he continues to pay on our house, where the rent is quite expensive.
Yeah I will think on the MIL some more...I may just let her know I am going to her city, would she like to have lunch. I don't think there is anything wrong with that, even if H were to find out. As long as I was REALLY careful and had something like a mental script to read from, I think I could be OK. If I were super-careful, it could even win me some points.
I am really treading a fine line right now between wanting to give up and stick in there. I mean to have someone talk to me in the way that H has is not really conducive to wanting to work on the marriage...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
