H doesn't even know how much we're giving his mom and he wants to cut her off which is SO unlike him! I really think he needs medication! He has become someone COMPLETELY different than the man I knew.
I will go back to Dublin and stay in our own house. I was toying with doing something different, but this is really H's problem now. It just sucks that he wants to pay my loans late so he can have a deposit for an apartment and that if I disagree I am selfish. I do think there will be lots of contact with H once I get to Dublin, but I am not sure whether he can let go of his anger enough. On the phone he even said that he still wanted to do joint counseling and I said "we don't need to" and he said "dammit I said it was fine." Hmm hardly a ringing endorsement...
I just feel like I need some outside help. This is the most ridiculous situation. I have never seen such anger before. At this point, sharing finances, there is absolutely NO way that I am going to put a trip to Mexico in the budget...This is why I wanted to get his mom on board. She might be the only person he listens to right now, and if she had a clue about how irrational he was being, she might step in a little bit more. However, I am not sure I could trust her not to talk to him...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
