I really do think things will work out between us. As I said yesterday we have already been through mini versions of this "hell" and made it through so I know we can make it through this. I really just have to work on me and my life while he is in his cave. I know that once he picks married life that it will be for good this time and so it will all be worth it.
Even just looking back at our first year of marriage is exhausting and we both wonder how the heck we made it through in one piece but we did and now it is just another set of events that help glue us together now. We have over 6 years of history, 2 long distance separations (when I was living in Guatemala after high school and when he was gone for 6 months last year with the army), and a firm foundation of friendship to rest on. So even though not everything is going perfectly right now I can see it turning around soon.
She works at IKEA part time in NJ so I was joking that she could come visit me and we could go shopping and use her employee discount! Sounds like a deal to me!
I have a dresser from IKEA and I want the bed set that matches it when I get my own place. I have beautiful living room and dining room furniture but my hubby and I have never had a bedroom set. Hand me downs mostly. We thought that when we got his military bonus we would get the whole bedroom set. No reason I can't get it on my own!
LMAO!! I wish I could use my discount online too!!
I think I am going to use my discount and little by little change my apt around. I already made some changes that H noticed but if I put in a new bed set he'll be blown away!! LoL
Can't use it for online shopping I guess?