Daisy I know this won't make you feel better about things but you are so YOUNG! I think you are in such a good spot. I'm not at all saying go out with other men or anything like that, but you can take this time to enjoy the attention that you are likely to get from others. I don't mean by being inappropriate in any way. I am only suggesting that this is a really great time that you will never be able to get back, so you should definitely enjoy it for what it's worth! If things do work out, which I still believe they will, you'll have been through all of this hell, and your H will have been through something sort of equivalent to an MLC before you even hit 25! I think you have such a bright future ahead of you,

ITH

Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!