Yeah DB coaching would be awesome because it would be sooo specific but I can't afford it now and if I move out on my own in the next month or two I certainly won't be able to because I will have to save all my extra money for "emergencies." But I agree that on here is good therapy and I know I have learned a lot, even just from writing posts "to myself" I learn things about myself and the way I have dealt with hubby in the past. Not very nice sometimes. It is easy for me to point my finger at him and say he is the root of all evil but if I take a look at everything I realize that a lot of the "evil" he does has been a direct result of things I have done. But that is kinda good news in a way. He is a good guy who has some growing up to do. I am a good woman with some changes to make. Totally doable!
