I agree not to bring it up; if she brings it up, then that indicates she is still thinking. No pressure right now.

If and when it does come back up, and she states her objections, you may want to do the broad brush strokes on what your plan is to keep from being unhappy; see if she picks up the ball at all and contributes. IE- you say "I was thinking we could go on a vacation to a sunny local" and she says "Oh, like Mexico, that would be nice" or whatever. If she doesn't pick up the ball, that's okay too. She may want YOU to do all the work since this was YOUR idea (to separate) and she may feel you have something to prove.

Having said that- women like strong men- don;t be a pushover or desperate. Whatever you say to her; do it from a position of knowledge and strength (ie, "I love my family, I love my wife and I can be part of the solution to make it work" vs "please take me back, I will do whatever you want. please!")

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing