JGrind, Thanks for that! It really does make sense. It is funny when I was at my parents house I was reading all the love letters that my H wrote me. It made me so sad b/c he was saying the same types of things that your H was. They really are trying to relive their youth! I really want to wait this out, I don't believe that their relationship is going to amount to anything but the longer it goes the harder it will be for him to break it off. I really want my marriage and a shot to make it right. I really hope and pray that he wakes up! Also just b/c he has consulted an atty does not mean that he is filing. And it is not over. I guess we need to continue to be patient and I will continue to pray for all of us.
Hope, I really hope everything works out with your daughter. You are a great mom and I am sure she will definately need your support. I know it will be hard with your own emotions but that is why we are the moms and not our H's who can only think of themselves.
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08