I think this must be 30 something threads and I'm not feeling very creative with titles today
Well I'm trying to get deeper into stage 2 and edge towards stage 3.
I'm feeling positive about this and I hope that within a week or 2 he'll see some new changes, feel comfortable around me more and maybe be willing to go out in public with me again. In other words to take a chance on me.
What do I need to do to reach that??? 1. Act as if nothing he does bothers me 2. Have a PMA 3. Joke with him a bit more...basically lighten up 4. No R talk 5. No taking the bait...I'm not a fish damn it 6. Hold my tongue and think if what I would like to say really will help my sitch
Obtainable? Yeah I think so
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Yes he does but he said it's only because he "has" to. I want him to "want" to. I embarressed him and myslef a couple of times while out and understandably he doesn't trust me not to do it again.
Time and patience is what I need.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Mishka...in March I pushed a whiskey over him in the heat of an arguement, then almost 2 months ago I left him sitting alone in a restaurant because I left in a tissy, and then about 3 weeks ago I screamed at him because his old EA called him (and thats all just this year).....nothing juicy...that's why I've been saying I need to hold my tongue and act as if.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
This is your "first" first.
