As always great thoughts. I hope it does come up again...I don't think it would wise if I bought it up. I will use your advice. I do have a plan. It's not thought all the way out yet that's one of the reasons I didn't want to get to "into it" with her. I am trying to play it laid back. Do you think that's a good way to go or should I be more upfront.


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