Please stop talking to him right now!!! No IMs don't accept any phone calls and if he emails DO NOT READ them now, or least respond.
He is being extremely selfish and hurting you right now. IGNORE him. You need to relax and let things simmer in your brain now.
I personally think that it is so unfair that he is laying all of the budget problems on you right now. If it is such a jail then he needs to figure out how to do it on his own. I'm sorry I just feel like kicking him for you!!
