I keep going back to this........ Assume you have NEVER met your exW/exH....... Also, ASSUME they were 100% honest (I REALLY doubt anyone would be)...... They told you they had walked out of their M or had an A.... How many people would consider this person a good possibility? Even with years of IC.... That person did it once..... They could easily do it again.......
That is why I very carefully selected a new W... She was in two serious Rs and M once..... In both cases, the guy walked away while she wanted to work on it...... That really says something about her heart and character.......
I cannot buy in to “good hearted” people destroying their Ms......... If they were “good hearted,” they would have worked on their M for a few years...... MLC or whatever... Difficult times show who one REALLY is......
I would have NEVER blazed out of my M with Kim.... We had too much history... We went through too much together..... I loved her way too much to want to be without her.... I could never hurt her in that way.... That is my heart......
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG; 09/24/0804:04 PM.
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