Well another update… The ex called this morning to remind me it was my son’s bday. Like I would forget! In the course of the conversation I asked if she had gotten an email I sent her relating to some documents we have to sign. The conversation went something like this. Her: I got both your emails (meaning the email I told her I would try again) Me: We don’t have to talk about the first one.. Her: That’s good because I don’t know what to say about it.
Couple minutes of small talk
Her: You know that we bring out the worst it each other…. 16 years have proved that. Me: I just wanted to you to know that if the time came when we clicked again I would be willing to work at this Her: We always clicked we just are bad for each other. What would you do if I asked you to come back to Connecticut tomorrow? You would be miserable. You would hate me for it. Me: For one thing I wouldn’t jump in my car and come back tomorrow…I have things going on in my life too you know. What I would do is work towards that.
Some more small talk … Financial and kid stuff.
She told me she was going to move into a rental property that she owns (3 bedrooms/1 bath). Besides her and my 2 kids, her deadbeat sister and husband and 2 kids would be moving in also. Their house is being foreclosed on and neither one of them work. She can’t stand living at her mothers because her mother hounds her about the way she is raising my kids (spending to much time w/the BF I assume) and the life she living.
Me: I gotta get going I have an appointment at 10:30 Her: OK I’ll call you on Tuesday Me: What for? Her …More financial and kid stuff
Goodbyes
CW you said she would be thinking about this and you seem to be right. But what’s up with all the other nonsense….
Me 49 W 38 M 12 T 16 Sep Mar 9 2008 2 Boys 7 and 10
