You are their mother and an AWESOME one at that!! You sound good lady! I hate that feeling of knowing our H's introduced a stranger to our children. YUCK. But, I know now that my D4 and I have cemented a strong bond and no matter if OW comes back in our lives or another one comes along, she and I will not be parted. You have that bond with your girls. They may see another person or spend time with them in the future, but nothing will ever be as comforting as mommy's arms, mommy's understanding or mommy's love. You know that.
I know you have more bumps in the road that you'll have to go over, but they're bumps that you can get through. I'll email you soon.
Have an amazing day. You deserve it.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day