Thanks Barbie. And yes, I feel the need for this divorce. I am tired of my husband continuously cheating on me.
One more thing that's hard for me is that he is walking away paying NOTHING to me, no spousal, no child support. I didn't ask for spousal, and because of the 50/50 split of the girlies, and me making more money than him, I get no child support. I might have to get a better paying job.
So, yes, I am in my dream job and might have to change because I want to keep the girls in their house. I am bitter about that. I will have the same bills/bigger house payment and H will owe nothing. Even though its 50/50 the girls will be here a ton more than that, and he knows it.
