My H isnt broke because he blows his money, he doesnt do drugs, or party or any of that. The one thing that takes most of his money is a loan that he took with him that we had together. One that I should have been half responsible for, but I told him that I werent going to help him pay it. His monthly payment is very high with it. I did tell him that my lawyer said that I could make a trade, I wouldnt take alimony and he could keep the whole loan and i wouldnt be responsible. I dont think my H would even be better off in a few years, he is stuck with this loan for about 6 years and he has a good job that pays the best in this area. I have a feeling he may even be homeless if his dad dies because his stepmom more than likely wont let him live in the camper anymore.
Really he has nothing left if I took alimony payments. I get enough child support to take care of me and my kids. Its just with the economy right now, my business is having a hard time and I am struggling to make ends meet. Im praying it will get better.
He seems to think if we divorce after January, I will have insurance till the end of the year. I need to check into that.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
