Ok lets think...I got the same convo from my H at the beginning of the S too. I felt like I was reading my sitch for a moment. I think it's a normal thing for him to say right now and I wonder how many others actually got the same "speech" at one time or another.
Ok maybe it does or doesn't help to know that what he's saying is pretty much part of the "script"
What got this convo started? Did he bring up the R talk or did you?
I think you might want to turn off the IM for a while at least for today. It won't do any good to talk to him now when you're both pretty rotted for various reasons. Can you take a walk in a park or something to clear your head?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
