I figured out what is up, why H is acting so sad, frustrated, etc. He is missing OW. I was sorting jeans for the laundry and found a piece of paper in his jeans that said "Leona Lewis Better In Time" in his handwriting. I just googled the song and here are the words...
It's been the longest winter without you I didn't know where to turn to See somehow i can't forget you After all that we've been through
Going Coming Thought i heard a knock(Whose there, Noone?) Thinking that (I deserve it) Now i have realised that i really didn't knooOooOw
If you didn't notice You mean everything (quickly I'm learning) To love again (all i know is) I'm be oooOook
(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you It's going to hurt when it heals too Oh yeaah (It'll All get better in time) Even though i really love you I'm gonna smile because i deserve too Oooh(It'll all get better in time)
(Verse)
I couldn't turn on the TV Without something that would remind me Was it all that easy? To just put us out your feeling
If i'm dreamin Don't want to let it (hurt my feelings) But that's the past (i believe it) And i know that, time will heal it
If you didn't notice Well you mean everything (quickly i'm learning) Oooh turn up again (All i know is) I'm be ok
(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you It's gonna hurt when it heals too Oooh yeah(It'll all get better in time) Even though i really love you I'm gonna smile because i deserve too oooooh(It'll all get better in time)
(Bridge)
Since there's no more you and me (No more you and me) This time i let you go so i can be free And Live my life how it should be(No No No No No No) No matter how hard it is I will be fine without you Yes i Will
(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you It's gonna hurt when it heals too Oooh(It'll all get better in time) Even though i really loved you I'm gonna smile cos i deserve too yes i do(It'll all get better in time)
Thought i couldn't live without you It's gonna hurt when it heals too yeaaaah Ooooh oooooh (It'll all get better in time) Even though i really loved you Going to smile cos i deserve too Ooooooh (It'll all get better....)
So, either he heard the song on the radio and identified with it, or she sent it to him on his phone. (Remember in June she drove past our house blasting the song "Why Don't You Stay" by Sugarland?? And he showed me in late July text messages from her asking why he wouldn't talk to her and saying she was lonely..
I don't know for sure what to make of this. It would explain why he has been "off" the past few days. But in reading the words, I don't think it is too bad b/c it talks about moving on without that person, so even if he thought of the song, it says he will move forward with his life and leave her in the past? Or if she sent it to him, it isn't a "wow we are so much in love" song, it is a "you left me but I will go on" song.
Someone please look at it from another perspective for me. Is this a bad thing, a good thing, or neither?
I think the tone of the song is that the person is moving forward in their life to find happiness without the person from the past. However, it does talk about being so in love and how that other person is their "everything". ick...
