Beth, Sg, All & BH I decided to wait for my D to call me and she's continued to call every day. I did see my C yesterday and told her what's been going on and she agreed that I'm the safe parent so D's not afraid to piss me off or hurt my feelings because I'll always be there for her and she knows it.
However, I did tell my D that I've seen to it that she has enough money to finish school "this year" and that I'm done supporting her unless she's hospitalized and can't work. I hope she understands because I mean it. She was OK with it and she will be giving me her student loan money to dole out to her as needed monthly. This was her idea. Interesting, that she doesn't trust her Dad to do this for her..............
I think that things are going to continue to happen to her Dad that will make her feel sorry for him. My Mom pointed out that he "uses" our D and it's true. An example is his coffee shop business that he put in her name so that it wouldn't get taken in his bankruptcy. I'm pretty sure that when I took him to court he ended up putting the entire business in bimbette's name so that I couldn't take it when I won.
But..........now, he's pissed me off and I will go after that business if it's the only way to get paid.
Interesting tidbit. Went to dinner with my bro last night. He and X have remained "somewhat" friends. X is giving up his U of M season basketball tickets!!! They are excellent seats. He offered them to my bro. My bro is sharing them with me!!! YIPPEE!!! That was one of the things I really missed was going to those games with my D and now I'll have the tickets if I want them!!! Soooooo, sometimes, what goes around really does come around!!!! I love my bro!!!
