Oh, but she's a deeply spiritual person with a deep bond with my H based upon what they want in their lives. My bond with H, on the other hand, is only based upon a covenant we professed in front of God and our friends. Apparently that's of less value.
Meeeeeoooowww.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012