I was a little bit tounge in cheek with my previous response.
My W could be described as headstrong, stubborn, childish, spoil all the sort of traits that you hope that one day they'll grow out of. She hasn't and she's very proud of her stubborn streak, and her willingness to take on an argument.
At face value she's very kind and loving, but she has this nasty streak which I used to see her turn on others and since then bomb it has been unleashed on me. At 44 she still got some maturing to do but thats her job, I can only watch and observe.
PS
You commented on how paitent you think I am, well just keep a track of your own sitch and you'll see that you will become a more than patient person given time.
