Yes.
As I was once referred the "DB Queen", I now feel plowed over.

I deserve a man who is fully committed to me. I sat in the car driving to work this morning thinking that I can do better than this!

I will continue to do as Dawn recommends, DB, detach, DB, detach.

I wonder, though, it if is really worth the effort. Is having him as my H really what I want or am I just so "stuck" on the fact that I committed my life to him that I'm afraid of breaking that commitment?

H & I, both 32, together since 18.
*M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08
* Agreed to D 6/09...very hard
*D 8/10
* At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF