DAM has reached out to me and asked about my career, if it is going OK, has the move to Poland hurt me, held me back in any way. Then he gives me all sorts of advice about how I should keep in touch with my manager by phone etc. I do NOT want his advice.

Then he says he's worried about me. I said "thank you for worrying about me. I am OK."

He says "I know we are going through rough times but do not let your career suffer". I am SOOOOO annoyed.

So I have given him no info in this conversation, stayed cold. I can't tell what "we're going through rough times" means to him, whether he things these are temporary or whether he wants me to move on. I wish he didn't always do this by IM too.

Grrr I just DO NOT get him. he STILL seems clueless about when I'm coming back, and STILL hasn't brought up the budget, which is the real concern now. I am trying not to read much into his IMs.

Alright off now. I am POSITIVE DAM will write again soon.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!