Close encounters of the MLC kind

[hoosiermama]

I was flipping channels last night and something about the "secret lives of women" caught my attention cuz a woman was talking about being a wiccan. She said she can do basically anything she wants as a wiccan as long as she does not hurt herself or anyone else.

hmmm now there is some food for thought, maybe your H's OW does not know the rules.

Actually, I made reference to that rule when I emailed her a few months back. And she quoted the rule--do as you will but harm none. It was a bit confusing how she rationalized all that, but because she had talked herself into believing she is emotionally supporting our entire family in doing this, and would harm H if she "withdrew from the relationship" and harm herself and the "healing path she has set for herself." They are both experts in justifying and rationalizing--guess they do have a lot in common! What a convenient "religion" it is.