Originally Posted By: Bridgestone

He shared that the C he saw a year ago, told him that he needed to leave me, since I'm the only one he does this with, that the only answer would be to 'not be around me'. He was not willing to do that.


Hey Sweets, that sounds like a load of b.s. to me. That relieves him of the responsibility to change. What C would advise that ??? My b.s meter is going off. I think he's spinning the facts to fit his skewed reality.

I'm envious of you doing all that healthy cleaning. I want to plant flowers, but it's still a bit hot.

I got watching some TV with D 14, & the recliner & I "became one" for a while. I didn't realize how tired I was.

Hugs to you


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.