thanks so much for checking in on me, lovely friends!
I had a good day of practicing at school, and then a weird confrontation with one of my tutoring clients (the former chief of police one), but I talked it over with my mom and my brother and felt better. I think I handled it professionally, it's just annoying and then it always upsets me and takes me a couple hours to "work through it".
I am thinking about calling B on wednesday... so I can call him earlier than our normal pre-bomb pillow talk time, but still feel rested and hopefully not have this emphysemic-like cough anymore. (I went to a concert yesterday and had to spend the second half outside because I was coughing so hard, but I just listened to the music combined with the crickets chirping...)
I am still relucatant to join FB, but if you want me to email you mp3s JUST TELL ME and I will do it!
Hi, Transformer! I just got caught up on your thread -- sounds like you're making wonderful progress. You should be very encouraged by his actions -- he wanted you to help him make an important decision! Keep up the good work. I don't think it's too early to start getting a little more ambitious with your emails and conversations. You need to remember what attracted him to you in the first place. Work on that flirtatious side; he's seeing the nurturing side already, I think.
I would love to hear your music, but I must have missed somewhere what FB is.
thanks so much for stopping by!! I really appreciate your encouraging observations. What exactly do you mean by more ambitious with my emails and conversations?? I will work on the fliratious side though!
FB = facebook. A bunch of DB'ers have set up profiles for other DB'ers to see (separate from their "real life" profiles). I haven't joined though, because I think it would be too tempting for me to spy on my B... thus the offer to email mp3s! teacherman, I am not sure how to get your email... unless another DB'er has it already, and then maybe I could network my way to it?
Otherwise--still planning on calling B tomorrow. I feel sore from practicing a lot of cello today, but almost all better from being sick. Last night I had a very nurturing night of cooking, listening to good music, and having a one-person balinese dance party in my bathroom!!
I also ordered some sexy new underwear (7 pairs, each for a different chakra) and... some special condoms.
Hey T! Ahhhh ...Mercury goes backwards today. Could be a good thing.. its often about revisiting the past and going back over things that should have been cleared up before but perhaps wasnt...but can also mess with communications. You've been warned!
Good lukc though for calling him, I'm very excited that you two are back in touch. Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Hi T ! It started a week ago slowing down.. it went backwards today, until 14th October.. but no.. go ahead and call him if you want! Mercury Retrograde is about revisiting the past and having convos that should have taken place before, not always about R's could be money, or tyeing up loose ends, like taxes or paperwork you should have addressed months ago.. but being in Libra, it is the sign of relating, so good generally for going back over issues to do with relating. This is all very general of course, but just to point out, it doesnt have to be a negative thing.
Gosh we've all been here so long T.. how long ago does it feel that you were kindlt sending me all those links and chunks of advice when I was just a newbie!???
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
