Beth, You're welcome. And you're right, no decisions need to be made right now. Remember, your worth is not based on other people's (rapidly changing) opinions of you. It is something that only you can determine, and has nothing to do with anyone else, other than how you deal with them.
I think you know what you need to do. DB, detach, DB, detach....
Discipline is remembering what you REALLY want...and working for the long-term goals even when it's unpleasant in the short term (like exercise).
Hopefully everything will look better in the morning.
Peace and courage, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
