Cagz,
The only person who will be there for every birthday you have in your lifetime is YOU. So...treat YOURSELF the way you would like to be treated on your special day, and anything else that comes your way for it is gravy.

Don't give him the power to ruin it for you. Take back your power. It belongs to you and no one else, and cannot be stolen; it can only leave you if you give it away. Take it back.

Decide for yourSELF that you will have a good birthday! After all...consider the alternative to having birthdays! ;\)

Peace,
Dawn

Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1