Beth, Repeat after me: MLC...cycling. MLC...cycling.
I haven't seen it in my H so much, but lots of other people around here have in their WAS's. It isn't a smooth road regardless of how hard you try. Hon, you still need to be detached. He's still in the tunnel. You're going to be getting this {two steps forward, three steps back, one step forward} thing for a while. He hasn't been returned by the aliens yet, but there's definite progress. I was reading somewhere that it usually takes the WAS a year or two to "get over" the OP, and that's with NC! It has nothing to do with you. Just keep DBing.
Take a deep breath and let it out. Do it again. This too shall pass...faster if you stay detached.
Peace and courage, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
