Although I still don't have a D document and it's been almost 4 months since we signed the papers. His Sister told me we would get a visit from a Social Worker and no one has contacted me. I don't talk to him about it.
He had told me in Feb. that he filed for a D but it wasn't true...it wasn't filed until we both went with his Sister in late May.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Jen no use thinking about the past. Trust me I kick myself too because if I had found this board in April when H was still living here I am 100% sure that he would not have moved out...but you know what I can't change that now, all I can do learn from it and make sure I don't make the same mistakes again!!
You are doing great sweetie. There is so much improvement in your sitch and your point of view just in these last few weeks. You had some backslides but the great thing about them is that you learned from them and have been able to turn them around.
SIL told me that day that we would go sign the docs then she'd go back and pick them up and bring them to the other court. She said before they grant the D a Social Worker will have to visit to clarify everything and make sure you agree with everything. I asked her how long all that would take and she said "it's pretty fast...maybe a month" He doesn't have a document either.
I was going to ask one of our friends who is D how long it took his (although his was a bit more complicated).
Maybe it doesn't matter?? It's only a flipping piece of paper
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I'm off to bed. I'd say this will be locked tomorrow sometime (2 days from birth to death of a thread will be a record for me I think) Night all... sweet dreams...buenas noches
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
