I think you are right. Things are in a weird place right now but if I can wait for him to come out of his cave then I think things will get back to where they were, if not better because of what I am learning.
I think that is why I get impatient though, I see where we were a little over a week ago and know how happy we were then at the beach (I swear I cannot get last weekend out of my head, random images pop up all the freaking time!) and how one day has unraveled that progress. But maybe it is not unravelled just yet. Just delayed?
I asked hubby last night why one day seems to have messed up our progress and he said "because that's how we roll" which I thought was funny. He only says that when he is smiling. And he is right. That is how we roll. For better or worse.
My friend says that all the time "you guys don't make any sense but somehow you make it work" and she is 100% right. We have faced a lot lot lot! of drama over the years and have made it through it all. There is no way this is going to ruin us! Not even gonna happen!