New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[twinhope]

Hello Everyone! Happy Belated Birthday to Hope and Marisol. I have felt incomplete without being able to post. I still have a lot of catching up to do but with what I have read it looks like you all are doing ok. I apologize if I missed something. I still have to keep reading!

Well it has been a crazy week for me! With the funeral, wedding, and starting a new job on Monday! As I said before when it rains it pours. The funeral was the first time I had been to my hometown without my H in 14 years. It was a sad event anyway but it was tough for me on that end as well. The wedding was another sad event. My H was talking to me and our friends about our wedding. So insensitive. I really think he is crazy! My friend talked to him while I was gone and clued him in that everyone knows about his OW and they have all seen her myspace page. She told him that there is no way in the world that their relationship is going to last b/c it is built on deception and lies. He tried to justify by saying what was I suppose to do, wait until she realized that what she did to our relationship. I tell you this crap is getting old and yes I think you should have waited, 14yrs vs. a 21yr old whore you have known for 5mos. That makes so much sense.

Well he did say to some of our friends before the wedding that he was glad that I realized what went wrong in our relationship and said that if we can be friends then maybe that would create an environment for us to get back together. I don't know what to think of this! He told me today on the phone that he hates his job(this is the 6th job in 7yrs and his first one he was at for 3yrs.) This is why I thought he was having depression and a MLC. He made the comment on wanting to sell real estate and maybe taking classes on the weekends he did not have our girls. He also said that if he doesn't do something now then he never will. He said he is not getting any younger. I wouldn't mind him changing jobs b/c his OW works there. I wonder if things are not going well and that is why he wants to leave!

Well do you guys think my H is going through a MLC? After the posts I have read, I think yes but he is only 30. I have been told that there is such thing as a 30yr. old crisis. All I know is that my H is an alien if I had ever seen! Hope you all are staying strong!