Hi! MsM we met on the Internet and moved in together the day I arrived to Caracas so we never "dated". We both "chased" each other in different ways in the beginning. I think he likes me persuing in the way I did tonight.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Today he had to go pick up a check from a new client. I told him what building it was in and I also told him the 3rd floor. I got a call and he said that it wasn't the 3rd so I told him maybe it was the 1st floor. A couple minutes later he called to say it wasn't the 1st either. So I told him that I'd call the reception to see what floor they were on. It turns out they are on the 2nd. I thought it was funny so I called him up and said "hey J, whats the average of 1 and 3?" I got dead silence and then "Jen, just tell me the F-ing floor" LMAO
When I spoke to him a couple hours later he said "you had me going all over the place today" uhuh so? Then tonight when he came by I asked him if he got much work done at the club this afternoon and he said "How could I? I spent my whole time going between floors looking for that check" Dork! I told him "Ay J, look I have the call history...it was 4 minutes total!!"
See that's why he's a DAM
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
The building he had to go to is called the "Eurobuilding" so he picked D up from school and took her with him. I spoke to her while they were on their way. I asked her where they were going (I knew) She asked her Dad and he said "we're going to Eurobuilding and then the club" D comes back on the phone and said "Mommy we're going to MYbuilding and then the club" It took almost 2 minutes for her to understand it wasn't YOURbuilding but EURObuliding. We laughed so hard.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
It was min 5 minutes and he made it out to be the worst thing ever. D said about it "Mommy we spent the afternoon going up and down in the elevator" LMAO...PITA in training
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I'm trying to go back to the beginning of the R when it was more ML and more joking around. For 4 months it was chatting and emails due to the long distance. We only spoke on the phone about 3 or 4 times before I arrived. I can't get him to loosen up much with the banter and joking but I think he'll come around.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Yes he will. . .just give it time. I'm amazed at how far you have come in the last few weeks Jen. Do you see how far you have come? If not then you should go and reread some of the posts from a month ago. It's amazing how different things are for you now than when I first started posting to you.
Thanks Daisy!! I find that I have good moments and bad moments. A few months ago I felt we were moving into friendship but then we fell out of that and now I'm trying to build it up again. I felt like I was failing because I really think if I had handled myself better back in March/April I would have busted the D. But on we go right? I'm not ready to quit yet.
And it took us to D to ML I still can't grasp that one.
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Then tonight when he came by I asked him if he got much work done at the club this afternoon and he said "How could I? I spent my whole time going between floors looking for that check" Dork! I told him "Ay J, look I have the call history...it was 4 minutes total!!"