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I really think he was looking for a re-action. And he didn't get one. I was just laying around chatting with him while he got dressed and then I put on my PJs...that's it. I didn't see any purpose in bringing up anyone.


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Lol Jen! You should have said that bit about the cheese! Imagine his face! \:\)


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It could be a new fetish ;\)


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I'm going to focus on the + and try and find ways to build on them \:\) ...can't focus on why he said this or that. Actions speak louder than words right ;\)


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He would have found the Cheese comment funny for sure...next time


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Exactly Jen. Just be warned that after awhile he could start getting mad if you don't react the way he expects because it would force him to change his view of you. Just word to the wise. Be prepared for crankiness down the line! But stick to your guns!


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Exactly!! And his actions were quite loud tonight.


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Bad Sep! lol


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Hey Jen, just out of curiosity, when you & your xh dated - who chased who?

For me - my H did the chasing & was in control when we were friends & dated.


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